I really do not know... sometimes...

This is another article I read from the Friendster Bulletin. It is very long.

English Translation is done by Me... Some are direct translation.

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其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子在对他们发火后自己却转过身不断啜泣。
Many boys don't know that after when a girl is mad at them, they will turn around and cry.

其实很多男孩子都不知道 ，女孩子从来不会真正生他们的气， 因为她是真的喜欢他在乎他。
Many boys don't know that a girl will never really mad at them, she just like you to care for her.

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子只会对她自己喜欢的男生唠唠叨叨，也只会对自己喜欢的人耍性子。
Many boys don't know that girl will only be long-winded to the one she likes.

你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会来在乎你关心你，她是怕你做错事情。
You must know, if she doesn't like you, she will not bother to care for you, she is afraid that you will err.

你要知道，假若她不喜欢 你，她根本不会对你发火，不会冲你撒娇，不会让你哄她…
You must know, if she doesn't like you, she will not be mad at you or let you make up to her...

于是，你们时常争吵，你认为她脾气不好，她认为你不够迁就她……
Thus, you will always argue with her, you will think that she has a short temper and she will think that you are not being accommodating enough...

于是，你们总是冷战，你以为她不喜欢你，她以为你不在乎她……
Thus, Cold War exists, you will think that she doesn't like you and she will think that you don't care for her...

于是， 你们总莫名其妙的彼此错过，也许擦身而过本身就是一种悲伤着的无奈与幸福……
Thus, both if you will miss the precious chance to be together...

你可知道，每个女孩子的心 都是水晶做的，晶莹剔透，很容易就碰伤摔碎。
You must know that a girl's heart is made of crystal and can be easily broken.

你可知道，每个女孩子都是不设防的，你那么轻易就闯进她的心，走的时候却只留下伤害…
You must know that all girls have no fortification, you will hurt them if you leave them after you have entered their heart...

她从来都不知道，这个世界上根本没有可以让她哭的人，因为真正值得让她哭的那个人根本舍不得让她哭……
Girls do not know that there will be no one that will make them cry because those who she will cry for will not even make her cry...

她会很矜持，她会很骄傲，她会很冷淡，她总是嘴里说着“你 走开”，心里却一直叫你留下。
She will be very reserved, proud and cold. She will always say "Leave me alone" but her heart will always want you to stay.

请竖起你的耳朵，也请打开你的心，去听她内心真正的呼唤吧，而不是她嘴里的口是心非…
Please listen and open your heart. Listen to her heart and not the duplicity she says...

她会看着你转身，然后她跟着你转身；当侧身而过的时候，你看不见她的泪，那是滂沱在心里的泪…
She will look as you turn away and she will turn away too; when both of you pass by each other, you will not see her tears and that is the tears in her heart...

如果你喜欢她，请多陪陪她；
If you like her, accompany her;

如果你喜欢她，请多宠宠她；
If you like her, pamper her;

如果你喜欢她，请多让让她……
If you like her, give in to her...

如果你真的喜欢她，请你去听听她内心的声音，那是一种呐喊，请你张开臂膀拥抱她……
If you really like her, listen to the voice in her heart. It is her shoutout, open your arms and hug her...

在爱情世界里，你们总是彼此伤害着，彷佛这样才能证明自己爱得激烈，爱到轰轰烈烈。
In the world of Love, people tend to hurt each other, just to show that they have gone through a tough and worthful love life.

可是 ，你爱她，她爱你，如此就已经足够，不要试图让彼此受伤 ，让彼此更加脆弱悲伤。
But, loving each other is more than enough. Do not try to hurt each other, do not try to make each other sad.

你们彼此相爱需要的是温暖、是幸福、是甜蜜、是快乐，是互相的疼爱…… 而不是伤害。
All you need is the warmth, happiness, sweetness and love... not pain.

不要用沉默宣战，不要互不相让，更不要什么话都不讲就漠然离去。有话就该说出来，不是骂出来。
Do not be silent and don't give in for each other and please do not leave without a word. Tell each other what you wanna say and not scold.

要知道，当你离去的时候，你的眼睛起了雾，她的眼角泛着泪光. 越是安静，战火就越传，这是冷战，也是彼此的伤害。
You must know, when you walk away, your eyes will be blurred and there will be tears in her eyes. The more quiet, the more the pain spreads. This is Cold War and it's also hurts.

无论以后怎么的复合，那些伤口是曾经存在的，是你怎么也抹不去的…
No matter how you get back together, the wound will still be there...

请给她一个拥抱，用你的拥抱去化解她心里的悲伤与眼角的泪水。
Please give her a hug. Let your hug heals the pain in her heart and tears in her eyes.

请记住，相爱的人不要宣战，因为带来的伤害超出你的预计。
Remember, do not declare war if you love each other because the devastation is worse that you can ever imagine.

亦会因此在两人心中累积伤痕…最后大家都会伤痕累累。
It will also increase the scars in each other and at the end, we will all be severely injured.

如果你爱她,她所有的小性子 、所有的坏脾气、所有的臭毛病在你眼里都是撒娇。
If you love her, all her bad habits, temper and problems will only be a pettish act.

也请记住，她喜欢你，需要的不是你真的转身，她嘴里说着的也未必是她真心话。
Also remember, she likes you too. She doesn't want you to turn away and what she said is sometimes not what she meant.

她只是想你宠她，想你抱她……
All she wants is you to pamper her, hug her...


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Will there ever be an article that says "Many Girls Don't Know..." ?